A natural response, different for every body
Squirting involves the release of fluid from the Skene's glands, located near the urethra. It's often compared to urination since it travels the same passage, but the two are quite different — and it's distinct from orgasm too, though the two can happen together.
Some people squirt in a gush, others in a trickle, and many people never squirt at all. It isn't a requirement for good sex — it's simply one fun, intense way some bodies express pleasure.
A little prep goes a long way
Protect Your Comfort
Lay down a waterproof throw or a thick, plush towel. It's easier to relax when your bedding isn't a worry.
Keep It Simple
Stay hydrated through the day, but avoid over-drinking right before. Empty your bladder first to ease your mind.
Release the Pressure
There are no rules. Learning how your body responds takes patience — treat it as an experiment, not a performance.
Three ways to find your rhythm
Master the G-Spot
Located about 2–3 inches inside the front vaginal wall, the G-spot often feels a bit firmer or more textured than the surrounding tissue.
The technique: use gentle, rhythmic pressure toward the belly button. As you find a rhythm that feels good, the area may become softer, or more "spongy."
Go with the urge — an intense urge to urinate is a common signal you're on track. Try leaning into that feeling rather than resisting it.
Bring In a Little Help
When fingers get tired or you want more consistent pressure, a good toy does the work for you.
Best tools: a G-spot vibrator or a weighted wand — the extra weight of stainless steel or firm silicone lets you focus purely on sensation.
Lube is your best friend. Squirting often involves more vigorous movement, so a high-quality water-based lubricant keeps things smooth and friction-free.
Don't Forget the Clitoris
Internal stimulation is wonderful, but for many people it isn't the whole story. Combining G-spot stimulation with clitoral play is a recipe for explosive sensations.
Whether with a dual-stimulation toy or your favorite vibrator alongside, adding clitoral pleasure can be the secret sauce that pushes things over the edge.
Angles worth exploring
Missionary with a Lift
Prop your hips up with a pillow — this angle makes it easier to reach the G-spot, or gives a partner deeper, more consistent access.
The Speedbump
Lie face down with your pelvis propped on a wedge pillow. Entering from behind creates a unique angle many find perfect for G-spot pressure.
Reverse Cowgirl
Being on top gives total control over depth and angle — allowing you to find the exact pressure you need to stay in your zone.
The Golden Rule: Have Fun
Squirting is just one of the many wonderful ways your body can express pleasure. If it happens, it can be an incredible, euphoric release. If it doesn't? You are still having an amazing time, and that is what really matters. Explore at your own pace, be kind to your body, and enjoy every moment of the journey. Ready to find your perfect toy?
